Keeping It Simple
The fastest, simplest ways to grow your business - no jargon, no fluff. Practical strategies that actually work for SME owners in the USA, New Zealand, and worldwide.
Monday, October 05, 2026
There is no single best business coach in the USA. Here are five criteria for choosing one, a fair look at the main formats, and why an outside perspective can change what you see in your own business.
Ask most coaches a simple question: "If I didn't need you anymore, would that worry you?" Watch how they answer. Some coaches build a business out of being needed forever, an open-ended monthly retainer with no real plan for the owner to eventually run the business without them in the room. That's not coaching, it's a subscription to someone else's confidence. The honest answer to "how do I find a business coach" starts with this: the best ones are working toward their own redundancy, not away from it. Kevin D'Ambros-Smith has coached over two hundred businesses one-on-one since 2017, and the ones who've grown fastest are consistently the owners whose coach was transferring capability, not just delivering advice.
The Coach You Can Never Seem to Leave
The named enemy here is dependency dressed up as support. It's easy for a coaching relationship to drift into the owner outsourcing their own judgment, calling before every decision instead of building the muscle to make it themselves. A coach who never pushes the owner toward independence, who keeps the engagement vague instead of building toward specific, owner-led milestones, has every financial incentive to keep things exactly as they are. That incentive is rarely malicious. It's just misaligned with what actually helps the business.
The Graduation Test
Three questions to ask before signing with any coach, or to ask of the one you already have.
- 1. The Capability Question — can you name a specific skill or system your coach has actually transferred to you or your team in the last ninety days, not just advice given, but something you can now do without them?
- 2. The Milestone Question — does the engagement have a defined scope, a point at which this phase of work is genuinely done, or is it an open-ended retainer with no finish line in sight?
- 3. The Reaction Question — when you push back or disagree, does your coach engage with it directly, or quietly steer you back toward keeping them around?
"Kevin has been a game changer for us. I had tried a couple of high-profile US entrepreneur programs but found these just talked about 'mindset', whereas Kevin gives practical advice to grow your business that you can implement immediately."
— Brett Abeille
Why Owners Rarely Ask This Question
Most owners don't interrogate the structure of a coaching relationship because they're focused on the immediate problem the coach is helping solve, not the shape of the engagement itself. That's understandable, and it's also exactly why the question matters. A coach worth hiring will welcome it. Simple-Growth's engagements are built around a defined system, the four pillars of strategy, marketing, sales and productivity, specifically so progress and capability transfer can be measured, not assumed, and so the relationship has a shape instead of drifting indefinitely.
Quick Wins
- Write down one specific skill or system you've genuinely absorbed from your current coach, if you have one.
- Ask your coach directly what "done" looks like for the current phase of work.
- Before hiring a new coach, ask the Graduation Test's three questions in the first conversation.
Key Takeaways
- A good coach is working toward the owner needing them less, not more.
- An open-ended retainer with no transferred capability is a warning sign, not a sign of thoroughness.
- Ask whether skills or systems are being built into the business, not just advice delivered in the room.
- A defined engagement with real milestones beats an indefinite one every time.
If you're not sure your current coaching relationship has a finish line, that's worth a direct conversation before your next renewal.
Kevin D’Ambros-Smith
Kevin is the founder of Simple-Growth and a business growth coach with experience at DDB, Ogilvy, and Saatchi & Saatchi. He has co-founded 9 companies, coached 200+ business owners one-on-one, and holds a 9.5/10 NPS. Every article on this blog reflects real-world experience - no theory, no fluff.
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Monday, October 05, 2026
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