Monday, November 09, 2026

Making It Happen is a self-paced video masterclass on six implementation skills, priced at $297 with a 30-day money-back guarantee. Here is what is in it, who it suits, who should skip it, and how to use it in 30 days.

There's a particular kind of tired that has nothing to do with hours worked. It's the tired that shows up after a good month, not just a bad one — when the numbers were fine and you still lay there wondering if this is just what owning a business feels like, forever. If you've had that thought, you're in more company than it feels like at 1am: 40% of US small business owners have considered giving up their business altogether (Xero Emotional Tax Return 2026, US). That's not a small, private failure. It's close to half.

Nobody Warned You This Was Part Of The Job

The villain isn't you, and it isn't the business either — it's the quiet rule that says admitting this out loud makes you less capable of running the thing. So owners carry it alone, performing "fine" at dinner, at the school gate, in the group chat, right up until it either passes or it doesn't.

What you'll miss, if it stays unsaid: not necessarily a dramatic collapse — just more of the same weight, carried solo, for longer than it needed to be. The version of this year where someone else was holding part of it with you.

Say The True Thing, Then Deal With It

Kim Scott's Radical Candor is usually taught as a management idea — care personally, challenge directly — but it works just as well pointed at yourself. Most owners are honest about everything except how they're actually doing. That's not toughness. It's just a habit nobody's interrupted yet.

Here's something I don't lead with often: having founded or co-founded nine companies and coached 200+ businesses one-on-one since 2017, I still hired my own coach through The Icehouse to accelerate my own growth. Not because I was failing — because having someone outside the business, with no stake in pretending it's fine, changes what you're willing to say out loud, and what you're willing to actually do about it once you've said it.

  • Say the true sentence to one person — not the group chat, one person who'll actually listen.
  • Separate the feeling from the facts — "I'm exhausted" and "the business is failing" are very often two different things wearing one worry.
  • Get one outside pair of eyes on the actual numbers, before the feeling makes the decision for you.

"Keeping me sane and focused during uncertain times."

— Rachel Williams

This isn't for you if you'd rather push through quietly and hope it passes on its own. It is for you if you're ready to say the true thing to someone who'll actually help you do something about it.

Key Takeaways

  • Know that considering giving up is common, not rare — roughly 4 in 10 US owners have felt it.
  • Separate how you feel from what the numbers actually say, before either one makes a decision.
  • Say it out loud to one person — carrying it alone is usually heavier than the thing itself.
  • Bring in an outside view before the tiredness talks you into a decision the facts don't support.

If any part of this sounds like your Tuesday, a conversation costs nothing and carries no obligation — that's exactly what the free call is for.

Wednesday, October 14, 2026

Nearly a third of small business owners have never taken a full week off, and new 2026 data shows the ones working the longest hours are also the most likely to want out. Here is the three-question test for turning hours into real freedom.

Wednesday, October 14, 2026

Over half of SMEs entering a new market in one UK study hit real problems doing it. The Ansoff Matrix maps the three safer growth routes most owners skip past first.

Wednesday, October 14, 2026

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Wednesday, October 14, 2026

UK SME owners spend six working days a month on admin and 3.6 days on growth, one survey found. Dan Sullivan's Who Not How habit flips which question you ask first.

Wednesday, October 14, 2026

Nearly half of SMEs in a 2026 survey had not raised prices since 2022. Here's the three-sentence script that makes the overdue price conversation simple instead of stressful.

Wednesday, October 14, 2026

76 of 100 B2B brands in a 2026 study fell into a credible-but-indistinguishable Sameness Zone. Here's the four-word positioning test, the Onliness Statement, that pulls a business out of it.

Wednesday, October 14, 2026

Your revenue is up and your margin just fell anyway — here's the planning gap behind it. Four moves that put margin back on the same page as your growth target before next year's numbers are set.

Tuesday, October 13, 2026

A practical playbook for NZ construction and building products owners: the market, the real growth constraints, how to price and win work, and a 90-day plan.

Tuesday, October 13, 2026

53 percent of small business owners say nothing would change if AI vanished tomorrow, and that is not an adoption problem, it is an embedding problem. Here is the three-question test that shows which one your business actually is.

Tuesday, October 13, 2026

New industry research finds most senior consumer goods leaders cannot say whether their last year of promotions actually made money. Here is the Revenue Growth Management discipline that fixes it before Christmas stock ships.

Tuesday, October 13, 2026

New research shows 90 percent of small business owners are preoccupied with work outside normal hours. Michael Gerber's E-Myth explains why, and names the one shift that actually fixes it.

Tuesday, October 13, 2026

Workplace research puts the cost of refocusing after an interruption at around 23 minutes, and the average worker now fields well over 100 messages a day. Here is how to protect the hours that actually move your business.

Tuesday, October 13, 2026

Forrester research finds only 8 percent of B2B buyers name price as the biggest driver of their decision. Here is how to find out what a price objection is actually about, before you reach for a discount.

Tuesday, October 13, 2026

A new Gartner survey finds most B2B buyers would rather research and decide without ever speaking to a salesperson. If your marketing cannot carry the whole sale alone, here is the tool that fixes it.

Tuesday, October 13, 2026

New Gallup data shows only 11 percent of SME owners with staff have a detailed written plan, and most of the rest will try to write next year's in December. Here is the three-date fix to do this week instead.