Sunday, November 08, 2026

Coaching is largely unregulated, so the vetting is yours to do. Here are 12 questions to ask any business coach in NZ before you sign, with what a good answer sounds like.

It’s 9pm, the kids are in bed, and you’re doing the invoicing because nobody else can be trusted with it, right after you did the books and right before you remember the tax return is due. You tell yourself this is temporary, that it’ll ease up once the business is bigger. It won’t — not unless something about how you spend your time actually changes.

You’re not lazy and you’re not disorganised. US research from Xero’s 2026 Emotional Tax Return study puts the average small business owner at roughly 22 hours a month on financial admin alone, with 56% blindsided by a tax surprise during the year. That’s nearly three working days a month spent on tasks that don’t grow the business — they just keep it from falling over.

I’m not here to tell you to work harder. I’m here to show you the one question that frees up most of those 22 hours.

The More-Hours Myth

The advice most owners get is some version of “get up earlier” or “block your calendar.” That treats the symptom. The real problem is that you’re trying to be excellent at everything — sales, delivery, the books, the tax, the hiring — when excellence at everything is simply not available to one person. The villain isn’t your work ethic. It’s the belief that doing it all yourself is the responsible option.

The ONE Thing: Gary Keller’s Focusing Question

Gary Keller and Jay Papasan built a whole book, and a whole way of working, around one question: what’s the one thing you can do such that, by doing it, everything else becomes easier or unnecessary? Applied to an overloaded owner, it’s brutally simple — the books and the tax aren’t your one thing, no matter how long you’ve been doing them. Handing them to a bookkeeper or an accountant isn’t weakness. It’s the single highest-leverage move most owners in your position haven’t made yet.

I used to be a recovering perfectionist myself — redrafting emails and decks endlessly before anything went out the door. What changed it wasn’t more discipline. It was accepting that something published at 70 to 80% beats something perfect that never leaves your drafts folder, because it can’t work for you until it’s actually out in the world. The same logic applies to admin: a bookkeeper who gets your numbers 90% right, fast, beats you doing them 100% right, late, at 9pm, after everyone else is asleep.

"Specific to my business requirements and takes a systematic approach. Practical, specific, and pertinent to my business."

— Simon Keepa, Icehouse Coaching Programme

Why You’re Still Doing It Yourself

You already know you should hand this off. The reason you haven’t is trust — it’s your money, your risk, and letting go feels like losing control of the one part of the business you can actually see clearly. That’s a real fear, not a silly one, and it’s exactly where a second pair of eyes helps: building the handover properly, with the right checks in place, so letting go doesn’t mean losing visibility.

This isn’t for you if control matters more to you than your evenings. The ONE Thing only works if you’re willing to be genuinely average at the tasks that aren’t yours to be excellent at.

This Week’s Move

  • List every task you did last week that wasn’t sales, delivery or leadership.
  • Circle the one that would cost the least to hand off and the most time to keep doing.
  • Get one quote from a bookkeeper or VA this week — just a quote, not a commitment.

Key Takeaways

  • Name your one thing — the task only you can do that makes everything else smaller.
  • Hand off the books and the tax before they cost you another evening.
  • Publish at 70 to 80% rather than chase 100% that never ships.
  • Could you list what you did last Tuesday night, hour by hour? That list is your answer.

If you’re still doing the books, the invoicing and the tax at 9pm, that’s the first thing Simple-Growth helps you hand off properly.

Tuesday, October 27, 2026

They nodded, asked great questions, said it's exactly what they need — then disappeared. Here's why warmth isn't a buying signal, and the three-message sequence that gets stalled deals talking again.

Tuesday, October 27, 2026

Most SME marketing describes the product and targets a demographic — and both miss why people actually buy. Here's the Jobs To Be Done framework, and how to find the job your business is really being hired to do.

Tuesday, October 27, 2026

Nearly half of businesses miss the target they set for themselves — and it's rarely because the team didn't try hard enough. Here's the three-number check that builds a 2027 target you can actually hit.

Monday, October 26, 2026

ActionCOACH, an EOS Implementer or an independent coach? A fair, source-linked guide for US owners, with a six-question test to match the help to your biggest constraint.

Monday, October 26, 2026

Gallup's 2026 global workplace data shows manager engagement is collapsing faster than everyone else's. Here's the research-backed 3-step fix for SME owners wearing the manager hat too.

Monday, October 26, 2026

Only about a third of seasonal businesses hold enough cash to cover their leanest months before the slow season hits. Here's the ten-minute reserve check before this year's peak trade.

Monday, October 26, 2026

A well-known coaching ROI study found a $7.90 return per $1 spent. Here's an honest look at where that number comes from, and what actually transfers to an SME owner.

Monday, October 26, 2026

Only around 20% of companies complete 80% of their strategic goals, and fewer than half of employees know what's expected of them. Here's how OKRs fix that at SME scale.

Monday, October 26, 2026

Bain research shows winning a new customer can cost up to 25 times more than keeping one you already have. Here's the CLV/CAC discipline that flips where your sales effort goes.

Monday, October 26, 2026

A 2026 Gartner survey found SMEs put just 12% of marketing spend into brand-building, against the 60% long-term research recommends. Here's what that costs you eighteen months from now.

Monday, October 26, 2026

Fewer than 5% of employees understand their company's strategy well enough to act on it. Here's the one-page scorecard that fixes it, reviewed in 15 minutes a week.

Sunday, October 25, 2026

Help to Grow: Management, a peer group like Vistage, or a business coach? An honest UK comparison, with best for and not ideal if for every option.

Sunday, October 25, 2026

Free and low-cost mentoring suits some NZ owners; paid coaching suits others. Here is how to tell which fits your stage, your problem and your budget.

Sunday, October 25, 2026

Most SME owners know their follower count, not where their last ten paying customers actually came from. Here is the 2026 data on what really drives growth.

Sunday, October 25, 2026

ANZ's September 2026 survey shows NZ business confidence easing again. Here's the trap that data creates for SME owners, and how growth-minded owners should read it instead.