Sunday, November 15, 2026

You find out a deal went cold weeks after it actually died. SPIN Selling's four questions show you which leads are real before you spend your best pitch on the wrong one.

Before your next customer ever calls, emails, or walks through your door, there’s a good chance they’ve already asked an AI tool about you. A 2026 consumer survey found that 77.6% of US adults used AI to help with a shopping or purchasing decision in the past six months, and 43.2% now do it at least once a week. That doesn’t mean AI is buying things on their behalf — most still won’t let it spend more than $50 without asking first, and only 11.7% would trust it past $100 in a single transaction. It means AI has quietly become the first stop in your customer’s research, and most SME owners have no idea what it’s saying about them.

The Shortlist You Didn’t Know Existed

For years, “being found” meant ranking on page one of Google. That’s no longer where the race starts. According to the 2026 Bain and Company online buyer survey, 44% of online buyers now begin their purchase journey inside a large language model like ChatGPT, or split their search between AI tools and traditional search — and the shift is strongest among B2B buyers at small and medium-sized businesses, who are building vendor shortlists inside AI chat tools, then validating those names through websites, reviews and demos.

Here’s the part that should get an SME owner’s attention: according to the 2025 6sense Buyer Experience Report, whichever vendor made a buyer’s initial shortlist went on to win the deal 95% of the time. Not the cheapest vendor. Not the biggest. Whoever was already on the list before the buyer started actively comparing.

So the real competitive battle isn’t happening in the sales call anymore. It’s happening earlier — in a conversation your customer is having with a machine, about you, that you’re not part of.

The AI Shortlist Test

You don’t need to become an SEO specialist to find out where you stand. Run these three checks — the AI Shortlist Test — and you’ll know more about your visibility than most of your competitors do.

1. The Citation Check. Open ChatGPT, Perplexity and Google and ask: “Who are the best [your category] in [your city or region]?” Does your business get named? If three different tools give three different answers — or no answer at all — that’s your starting point.

2. The Proof Density Check. AI tools don’t repeat your marketing copy; they lean on what other people have said about you — reviews, testimonials, case studies, press mentions, directory listings. Count your genuinely independent public proof points. Fewer than 10 to 15 is a visibility gap, not a marketing problem you can write your way out of.

3. The First-Contact Clock. Visibility only matters if you can convert it. Once a prospect who’s already done their AI homework actually reaches out, how long before someone replies? The 6sense research found 80% of deals go to whoever responds to the buyer first — not whoever eventually sends the best proposal.

“Kevin assists businesses to understand their ‘Secret Sauce’ and implements a strategy to grow the company’s brand and in turn, business opportunities. His guidance and strategic advice is always well thought through and gets fantastic outcomes.”

— Gareth Bayliss, Sales Manager, The Icehouse

This is exactly the gap Kevin works through with clients before they spend another dollar on marketing. The businesses that show up on an AI shortlist aren’t the loudest — they’re the clearest about what makes them different, and they’ve made that difference easy for others to repeat back.

Why Most Owners Know This and Still Don’t Fix It

None of this is a secret once it’s pointed out. So why do most SME owners still have no idea what AI tools say about their business? Usually it’s one of three things: nobody owns the job, since it falls between “marketing” and “IT” and ends up belonging to no one; there’s no system for collecting the reviews and proof that AI actually cites; or the business has never tested itself the way a prospective customer actually would.

This is where the Simple-Growth System™ earns its keep — not as another thing to add to the to-do list, but as the sequencing: find the real constraint first, usually proof density or response time rather than “we need more leads,” fix that one thing properly, then move to the next.

Three Things to Do This Week

1. Run the Citation Check. Ask three AI tools who they’d recommend in your category and your city or region. Write down exactly what they say.

2. Count your proof. Tally your genuinely independent proof points — Google reviews, testimonials, case studies, press — and set a target to add five more in the next 30 days.

3. Time your response. Clock your actual response speed to a new enquiry, end to end, and compare it honestly against same-business-day.

Key Takeaways

  • 77.6% of US consumers used AI to help with a purchase decision in the past six months, and 43.2% do it weekly.
  • Being first on a buyer’s shortlist, not cheapest or biggest, wins the deal 95% of the time.
  • 80% of deals go to whoever responds to the buyer first once they make contact.
  • AI tools cite other people’s words about your business, not your own marketing copy, so proof density matters more than ad spend.
  • Run the AI Shortlist Test, meaning the Citation Check, the Proof Density Check and the First-Contact Clock, to find out where you actually stand.

If you don’t know what AI tools are telling your next customer about you, that’s the first constraint worth fixing, before you spend another dollar on marketing.

Monday, November 09, 2026

Half your enquiries drain you because your marketing is built to appeal to everyone. Seth Godin's Purple Cow and a real client story show SME owners how to find the one sentence that's actually remarkable.

Monday, November 09, 2026

Sales are up but the bank balance isn't following. Here's Marc Benioff's V2MOM — the one-page tool that turns a wish-list strategy into the few moves that actually protect your margin.

Monday, November 09, 2026

Making It Happen is a self-paced video masterclass on six implementation skills, priced at $297 with a 30-day money-back guarantee. Here is what is in it, who it suits, who should skip it, and how to use it in 30 days.

Monday, November 09, 2026

Scaling Up publishes a price ladder from a $20 book to a $40,000-$120,000 annual coach retainer. Here is what each rung buys, who it suits, and when a coaching program is the better first step.

Sunday, November 08, 2026

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Sunday, November 08, 2026

Coaching is largely unregulated, so the vetting is yours to do. Here are 12 questions to ask any business coach in NZ before you sign, with what a good answer sounds like.

Sunday, November 08, 2026

A fresh 164-team B2B sales survey finds 59% of small teams never calculate pipeline coverage, and most deals slip twice before closing. Here is the 3-step Pipeline X-Ray to run this week.

Sunday, November 08, 2026

A free clinic, a $295 + GST mentor, half-funded training or a paid coach: which rung suits your business, and how to avoid paying for the same thing twice.

Sunday, November 08, 2026

A Cambridge, NZ plumbing business turned culture into its brand and grows even in the quiet months. Here’s the Net Promoter System fix for feast-or-famine growth.

Sunday, November 08, 2026

A competitor just did something close to what you do, and you went blank on what makes you different. Here’s why you can’t see your own edge alone.

Sunday, November 08, 2026

Only finding out how last month went weeks later? An NBA team’s gamified sleep stats and the One Metric That Matters framework fix that this week.

Sunday, November 08, 2026

Losing quotes to whoever answers first, not whoever's most polished? Here’s how one account cut quote time from 90 minutes to under 10 — and how your team can too.

Sunday, November 08, 2026

If your enquiries dry up the day you stop posting, you don’t have a marketing system. Here’s the Flywheel fix and a sign on a wall that outperformed a campaign.

Sunday, November 08, 2026

Spread across five markets and dominating none of them? Here’s the Beachhead Market framework and a real client story on why one bold bet beats five safe ones.

Saturday, November 07, 2026

Four options, four different jobs. A plain guide to who EOS, Dent's Key Person of Influence, EO New Zealand and one-to-one coaching each suit, built only from what each publishes.