Sunday, November 01, 2026

You cancelled the weekend away again. If you can't step away long enough to ask whether a coach is worth it, that's not a reason to skip the question — it's the reason to ask it.

It's 9pm and you're still working the phone. Another follow-up text, another "just checking in," another deal that needs one more push to close. You tell yourself the hustle is the job. Some nights you wonder if you can keep doing this.

Before you add another hour to the chase, ask a harder question: is the offer doing any of the selling, or is it all you?

Nine companies founded or co-founded, some very successful and some outright failures, taught me the same lesson about sales every time: an owner who has to personally convince every customer doesn't have a sales process. They have a treadmill.

The enemy is "sales is a hustle"

The advice everywhere says the same thing: more calls, more hours, more follow-up, more grit. Nobody tells you that if every deal needs your personal persuasion to close, the problem isn't your effort — it's what you're selling and how. Hustle papers over a weak offer. It never fixes one.

Fix the offer, not the chase

Alex Hormozi's Value Equation gives this a shape you can actually work with: value equals the dream outcome times the likelihood of achieving it, divided by the time it takes and the effort and sacrifice required. Every "almost closed" deal you're chasing right now is weak on one of those four. Chasing harder doesn't fix the equation. Changing it does.

  • Raise the likelihood — proof, guarantees, a smaller first step, so belief doesn't rest on your charm alone.
  • Shrink the time and effort — anything that delays the outcome or adds hassle is a reason a prospect goes quiet, not a reason to follow up again.
  • Make the dream outcome specific — vague benefits need a salesperson to translate them; a specific one sells itself.

I've built nine companies, and not all of them worked. The ones that struggled always had the same tell: I was the offer. The moment I stepped back, sales slowed, because nothing about what we sold made the decision easy without me in the room. The businesses that grew without burning me out were the ones where the offer did that work instead.

"Kevin is an absolute powerhouse! He doubled our business's profits in the first month alone with lots more of his recommendations still to be rolled out."

— Curtis Hacon, Give A Sh!t

Why this gets missed

Fixing an offer feels slower than making one more call, so exhausted owners keep calling instead. It's the wrong trade. An hour spent tightening the guarantee, the proof or the first step pays out on every deal after it; an hour spent chasing pays out once, if you're lucky, and leaves you exactly as tired tomorrow.

This isn't for you if you'd rather keep perfecting your pitch than look honestly at what you're pitching.

Key takeaways

  • Stop chasing harder on a weak offer — it just delays noticing it's weak.
  • Use the Value Equation to find which lever — likelihood, time, effort or the outcome itself — is actually stuck.
  • Specify the outcome — a specific one sells itself; a vague one needs you in every room.
  • Build the selling into the offer, not into the hustle, if you want growth that doesn't burn you out.

If you're exhausted from chasing and the close rate still isn't moving, the fix usually isn't more hustle.

Friday, October 30, 2026

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