Monday, November 09, 2026

62% of US owners reduced or skipped their own pay in the past year (Bluevine, 2026). David Sandler's qualifying method — and a real client story — show SME owners how to stop chasing the wrong deals.

Every SME has at least one meeting that has happened five times this year with no different outcome — the same issue raised, the same discussion had, the same "let's revisit next month" close. That is not a communication problem. It's a decision backlog, and it is one of the most expensive, least visible drains on an SME's time. Research on meeting costs backs up what every owner already suspects: unnecessary and ineffective meetings waste an estimated $25,000 per employee, per year, according to Bloomberg-cited research — and the U.S. economy loses an estimated $259 billion annually to unproductive meetings, per London School of Economics figures. Most of that cost isn't wasted time in the room. It's the decision that still didn't get made.

The Problem Reframe: Meetings Aren't the Enemy — Undecided Meetings Are

You can read more on the scale of this cost in Flowtrace's meeting statistics research. The named enemy isn't meetings themselves — plenty of meetings are genuinely useful. It's the meeting that exists specifically because nobody is willing to make the call without one. Every recurring agenda item that never resolves is a decision sitting in someone's backlog, quietly costing the business momentum, clarity, and — eventually — good people who get tired of discussing the same problem without ever fixing it.

The Framework: The 3D Decision Rule

The fix isn't fewer meetings. It's a rule that forces every open item toward resolution instead of another round of discussion.

1. Decide — if the information needed to make the call already exists in the room, it gets decided before anyone leaves. No "let's think about it" when the facts are already on the table.

2. Delegate — if the decision doesn't need the owner or the leadership team, it gets handed to the person closest to the problem, with a deadline, on the spot.

3. Defer with a date — if it genuinely can't be decided yet, it gets a named owner and a specific date it returns, not a vague "next time it comes up."

Every open item in your business gets one of these three tags, every week. Nothing sits in limbo indefinitely — that's the entire point.

"Keeping me sane and focused during uncertain times."

— Rachel Williams, Icehouse Coaching Programme

The Execution Gap: Why Owners Let the Backlog Build

Most owners aren't avoiding decisions out of indecision — they're avoiding them because every decision in a small business feels personal, and a wrong call has no one else to absorb the blame. That instinct is understandable, but it's also exactly why an outside voice in the room changes the dynamic: someone with no political stake in the outcome, whose only job is to ask "are you deciding this, delegating it, or deferring it with a date" every single time it comes up again.

Real-World Proof: What Clearing the Backlog Looks Like

  • List every recurring, unresolved agenda item from the last month.
  • Tag each one Decide, Delegate, or Defer-with-a-date in your next meeting.
  • Track how many items are still "open" four weeks later — that number should trend toward zero.

Key Takeaways

  • Name the decision backlog — the real cost isn't the meeting, it's the unresolved item inside it.
  • Apply the 3D Decision Rule to every open agenda item, every week.
  • Assign a date to every deferred decision — never leave one open-ended.
  • Bring in an outside voice when internal politics keep decisions stuck.

If the same three issues have come up in your last three leadership meetings, that's your decision backlog — and it's the first thing Kevin helps you clear.

...and you become the owner whose meetings end in decisions.

Sunday, November 01, 2026

Most NZ businesses are owner-run and many have no staff, so advice has to fit one person's week. Here is how coaches, consultants, mentors and peer groups differ, what is publicly known about cost, and how RBPN funding can help. Checked 1 November 2026.

Sunday, November 01, 2026

Four well-known ways to get help growing your business, compared on who each suits, what is publicly known about cost, and the seven questions to ask before you sign. Checked 1 November 2026.

Saturday, October 31, 2026

Most SME owners have a 12-month plan for the business but no vision for their own life. Here is a simple 3-step fix, plus the research behind it.

Saturday, October 31, 2026

US owners lose 33 working days a year to financial worry, mostly from not knowing their numbers. Here's the 2-number Monday check that closes the gap.

Saturday, October 31, 2026

46% of NZ small business owners aren't paying themselves. Here's why that has to change, and the three moves that build it into a real habit, not a hope.

Saturday, October 31, 2026

US owners lose 22 hours a month to financial admin and 56% get blindsided by a tax surprise. Here's the E-Myth fix that gets the books off your desk for good.

Saturday, October 31, 2026

41% of US owners say the cash-flow gap between money in and bills out is their top stressor. Here's why better follow-up won't fix it, and the three moves that stop the chase before it starts.

Saturday, October 31, 2026

63% of US small businesses say word of mouth is key to new customers. Here's how to build that into a system that still works when you're not personally chasing it.

Saturday, October 31, 2026

68% of US owners have delayed a major decision purely from fear of getting it wrong. Here's the 15-minute premortem test that gets you unstuck before you spend another dollar on it.

Friday, October 30, 2026

UK SME owners now spend almost twice as long on admin as on growth, per a fresh 2026 survey. Here's the three-step Weekly Execution Audit Kevin uses to help owners flip that ratio.

Friday, October 30, 2026

Only 30% of US owners finished 2025 with profits above expectations, down from 57% the year before. Here's the real reason growing revenue stopped meaning growing margin.

Friday, October 30, 2026

43% of US owners have hidden business stress from their own family. Here's why carrying it alone is the actual problem, and why Kevin hired his own coach.

Friday, October 30, 2026

If your business stops the moment you do, the problem isn't your team. It's how many of their problems you're still quietly carrying. Here's the fix, from a 1974 HBR classic.

Friday, October 30, 2026

One client had 123 customers. Eight of them delivered 42% of total revenue. Here's the A-B-C-D grading system that tells you which customers actually matter.

Friday, October 30, 2026

Nearly three in ten US owners name unpredictable demand as a top stressor. Here's the always-on marketing system (RACE) that replaces the feast-and-famine cycle.