Sunday, November 08, 2026
Only finding out how last month went weeks later? An NBA team’s gamified sleep stats and the One Metric That Matters framework fix that this week.
You closed three deals this month and you still haven’t paid yourself properly. You tell yourself it’s a cash-flow timing thing, but you know, if you’re honest, that at least one of those deals cost you more in time and discounting than it ever paid back. This is a story about someone who wants more sales, but the obstacle isn’t closing more — it’s closing the right ones.
You’re far from the only owner skipping your own pay to keep the business moving. In the US, 62% of small business owners reduced or skipped their own pay at least once in the past year, and 21% did so four or more times (Bluevine, Feb–Mar 2026, 781 owners). A good chunk of that comes from deals that were never going to be profitable in the first place.
I’m not here to tell you to chase harder. I’m here to show you how to qualify before you chase at all.
Most SME sales teams are taught to pursue every lead with equal energy — follow up fast, follow up often, never let one go cold. It sounds like diligence. It’s actually how you end up quoting, discounting and delivering for people who were never going to pay properly or stay loyal, while your best-fit prospects wait in the queue behind them.
The real enemy isn’t a slow pipeline. It’s treating every enquiry as equally worth your time, when some of them are quietly the reason you can’t pay yourself.
David Sandler built an entire sales methodology on a simple reversal: instead of selling harder, you ask better questions earlier, and let the prospect sell themselves on whether they’re a fit. Sandler’s “pain funnel” means digging into the real cost of the problem before you pitch anything — if there’s no real pain and no budget to fix it, you find out in minute five, not week five.
I had a client whose hardest-won account came from exactly this kind of patience — not a pitch, a relationship. A notoriously hard-to-read agency boss and a would-be supplier found themselves talking at a field hockey match, not about the deal at all. Months of genuine rapport, built with no pressure and no agenda, did more for that contract than any proposal document ever could. By the time business came up, the trust was already there. That’s Sandler’s whole point: people buy from people who understood them first.
"Dynamic, empowering, and absolutely transformative! Kevin leaves every audience armed for victory."
— Darilyn Kane, Coaching and Advisory Lead, The Icehouse
You know some leads aren’t worth the chase. The reason you keep chasing them anyway is that saying no to revenue feels wrong when you’re worried about the gap between what’s coming in and what’s going out. Building a qualifying process you actually trust — one that lets you walk away early without the guilt — is exactly the kind of system a coach helps you build once, so you stop rebuilding your confidence every single sales call.
This isn’t for you if you’d rather keep every lead alive just in case. Sandler’s approach only pays off if you’re willing to lose the wrong deals on purpose, early, before they cost you anything.
If you’re closing deals but still not paying yourself properly, that’s a qualifying problem, not a hustle problem — and it’s fixable.
Sunday, October 18, 2026
Most growth plans start with last year's number plus a guess. Here is the three-number market-sizing check that separates a real plan from a wish list.
Saturday, October 17, 2026
Nearly 8 in 10 small business owners say long-term planning feels harder than ever. The usual fix, a better template, isn't the one that works — here's the exercise that fixes it before you build the plan.
Saturday, October 17, 2026
NZ retail lifted productivity 9.1% without adding hours, while national output per employee fell. Here's how to grow revenue before you grow headcount.
Saturday, October 17, 2026
Most owners expect a coach to fix things in week one. Here's what actually happens in the first 90 days, and why that structure is the real breakthrough.
Friday, October 16, 2026
A 2026 Bain survey found fewer than half of CEOs believe their company can execute fast enough, even with full teams and budgets behind them. Here is the weekly rhythm that turns a good plan into tracked progress for an owner running the show solo.
Friday, October 16, 2026
A bank survey found 98% of small business owners do not know their company's value. Most shrug because they are not selling. That is the mistake: the work that lifts value is the same work that lifts growth right now.
Friday, October 16, 2026
Global surveys put client satisfaction with coaching at 95 percent good or excellent. The unhappy minority almost always skipped the same three checks before they signed. Here is what to check before you do.
Friday, October 16, 2026
67% of founders work more than 50 hours a week, and most of those hours go to re-explaining tasks or double-checking work that did not need it. The fix is matching your leadership style to each task's readiness level.
Friday, October 16, 2026
Seventy-seven percent of B2B buyers call their last purchase complex, with six to ten people in the room. Most SME sales reps still pitch like there is only one decision maker, then blame price when the deal goes quiet.
Friday, October 16, 2026
Eighty-four percent of consumers say they plan to buy from a small business in the next two months. Most of that goodwill never converts, and it is not because customers do not care. It is because there is no specific offer ready to meet them.
Friday, October 16, 2026
Most SME owners are hitting their numbers, so why is confidence falling? The real reason isn't the economy. It's what's missing from next year's plan, and the three-question test that fixes it before you finalise a dollar of it.
Thursday, October 15, 2026
Owners testing something new are far more likely to expect faster growth. Here is how to find the adjacent customer segment sitting right next to yours.
Thursday, October 15, 2026
Thought a business coach was out of budget? For many eligible NZ businesses, the Regional Business Partner Network can cover a large share of the cost.
Thursday, October 15, 2026
Some SME leaders are already getting a half-day a week back from AI. Here is the simple filter that decides what to automate, augment or leave alone.
Thursday, October 15, 2026
It was not the pitch that killed your last deal. It was the four weeks of silence after it. Here is the follow-up sequence most SME sales teams never build.