Saturday, October 31, 2026
46% of NZ small business owners aren't paying themselves. Here's why that has to change, and the three moves that build it into a real habit, not a hope.
You cancelled the weekend away again. Something always comes up — a staff issue, a client crisis, a decision that "only you" can make. You tell yourself it's temporary, that once this quarter settles down you'll finally get some space back. It's never once settled down, not in years.
If you can't step away long enough to even ask whether a coach is worth it, that's not a reason to skip the question. It's the reason to ask it.
Since 2017 I've coached 200+ businesses one-on-one across 30+ industries, and I've been on both sides of this — the owner who couldn't say no, and the coach helping someone else learn to.
Nobody says this out loud, but almost every exhausted owner believes it: needing outside help is admitting you can't cope. It's the opposite. The businesses that actually scale past the owner's own ceiling are run by people who got comfortable asking someone else to look at what they couldn't see themselves — not because they were weak, but because one person's view of their own business is always partial.
I used to struggle badly with saying no — to clients, to opportunities, to requests that weren't mine to say yes to. If you say yes to people, you are helping them achieve their goal and you're not achieving yours. I eventually started blocking my own diary, on fixed days, just to protect space to think. None of that happened because I decided to try harder. It happened because something outside my own head — a structure, an accountability point — made it stick.
"Kevin D'Ambros-Smith presented on the Icehouse Owner Manager Programme and he was brilliant… it was the most notes I have ever taken from any speaker."
— Steve Holloway, Founder, Between Two Beers Podcast
Owners wait because it feels like admitting defeat, or because "I don't have time to even look into it" feels true. It is true — and it's also exactly the problem a first conversation is for. You don't need to have stepped away to start; you need one conversation that doesn't ask you to solve everything first.
This isn't for you if the idea of someone holding you accountable, out loud, every week, feels worse than staying stuck.
Kevin works personally with a select group of SME owners to build the accountability and capability that make stepping back far more likely — not accidental.
Saturday, October 10, 2026
Most SME owners are confident they will hit this year's goals, and most will not. The fix is not more effort, it is a plan that fits on one page and gets checked every week.
Friday, October 09, 2026
The share of owners blaming the economy for not planning long-term has tripled in a year. Here's the one-page plan that actually fixes it, not excuses it.
Friday, October 09, 2026
A new market, a new product line, a second location: most lose money the same way, by skipping the three numbers that would have told them how big the opportunity really was.
Friday, October 09, 2026
Most people picture coaching as a conversation. The sessions that actually move a business are a loop, repeated every week, until it becomes how the owner thinks.
Friday, October 09, 2026
A forty-item to-do list with none of the three that mattered finished is not a time management problem. It is a filter problem, and the Eisenhower Matrix is the filter.
Friday, October 09, 2026
A good salesperson gets four real conversations a day. A good presentation, given once, can reach four hundred. Here is why most SME sales teams never use it.
Friday, October 09, 2026
Customers do not leave because a competitor shouted louder. They leave because, in the exact moment they needed someone, your brand was not the one they thought of.
Friday, October 09, 2026
Most SME owners track one number: the bank balance. The businesses that compound track four, using Kaplan and Norton's Balanced Scorecard, and catch the problem before it ever reaches the bank account.
Thursday, October 08, 2026
Thursday, October 08, 2026
Nearly half of NZ SME owners plan to raise prices this year. Only 4 percent of companies have a value proposition clear enough to justify it.
Thursday, October 08, 2026
Revenue can climb for years while the actual value of the business barely moves. Here are the eight drivers that decide which one you are really building, and why owner independence usually matters most.
Thursday, October 08, 2026
If every session with your coach leaves you comfortable, that is the warning sign, not the proof it is working. Here is why direct feedback outperforms kind feedback, backed by Gallup's data.
Thursday, October 08, 2026
A global survey of over 10,000 workers found trusted employees nearly twice as productive as distrusted ones. If your calendar fixes keep failing, the real constraint may be trust, not time.
Thursday, October 08, 2026
Most sales conversations present cheapest to most expensive. New research found flipping that order lifted revenue by 10.8 percent, with no price changes at all. Here is how to use it.
Thursday, October 08, 2026
Most SME marketing budgets are weighted toward customers who already buy. The research says that is the smaller lever. Here is where brand growth actually comes from, and how to redirect your spend toward it.