Monday, October 26, 2026
ActionCOACH, an EOS Implementer or an independent coach? A fair, source-linked guide for US owners, with a six-question test to match the help to your biggest constraint.
You've said "fine" more times this month than you can count. Your partner asked how work is going, and you gave them the short answer, because the long answer would mean admitting how tight things actually are, and you didn't want to put that on them too. You're not hiding it because you're weak. You're hiding it because you genuinely believe carrying it alone is the responsible thing to do. It isn't, and you don't have to prove anything by doing this by yourself.
Nearly half of US small business owners, 43%, say they've hidden business stress from a partner or family member, according to Xero's Emotional Tax Return 2026, as reported by CPA Practice Advisor. That's not a character flaw showing up in the data. It's a myth showing up in the data — the idea that an owner is supposed to have all the answers, alone, and that asking for outside perspective is somehow an admission that you can't handle your own business. I don't believe that, and I've never believed it less than after founding or co-founding nine companies, some very successful and some genuine failures.
Here's something I don't lead with often: I hired my own coach, through The Icehouse, specifically to accelerate my own growth. Not because my businesses were failing — because I knew that no matter how much I'd learned at agencies like DDB, Ogilvy and Saatchi & Saatchi, or across nine companies founded or co-founded, I still couldn't see my own blind spots from inside them. An outside, experienced eye isn't a sign you've run out of ideas. It's the fastest way to find the one you've been missing.
"Keeping me sane and focused during uncertain times."
— Rachel Williams, Icehouse Coaching Programme
Knowing the myth is a myth doesn't automatically make it easier to speak up. Most owners understand, intellectually, that a confidential outside sounding board would help. They stay quiet anyway, because the first conversation feels like the hardest one — harder, often, than the problem itself. That first conversation is exactly where a coach's job actually starts: not fixing your business in the first session, just being the one person you can say the real number to, without it landing on your family's shoulders.
This isn't for you if you've decided no one else could possibly understand your business well enough to help. It's for you if you're ready to stop carrying it entirely by yourself.
If there's a number you haven't said out loud to anyone yet, that's exactly the conversation we start with.
Friday, September 04, 2026
Most SME growth targets are last year's number plus a round figure nobody can defend. Here's how to build a target from capacity, market, and unit economics instead — one your team can actually plan against.
Friday, September 04, 2026
A new survey found 56% of small business owners hit a major cash flow crisis in their first three years, and 80% still face it yearly. The fix isn't a better bookkeeper — it's a rolling cash system.
Friday, September 04, 2026
88% of founders admit stress causes poor decisions, but only 19% have the delegation skills proven to fix it. Why the fix for founder burnout is a decision-rights system — not rest.
Friday, September 04, 2026
Launching new lines the moment your core product works feels like growth. The data says it's usually what causes the plateau.
Friday, September 04, 2026
Being the best operator built your business. Staying the best operator is now the ceiling on how big it can get.
Friday, September 04, 2026
Buying a new platform feels like progress. Usually it's avoidance — the process was broken before the software, and stays broken after.
Friday, September 04, 2026
Your top performer's secret isn't a better pitch — it's a question sequence that gets the prospect to close themselves.
Friday, September 04, 2026
You don't need a national ad budget to get cut-through — you need dominance in the community your customers already trust.
Friday, September 04, 2026
Most strategy fails in translation, not ambition. Here's how to cascade a boardroom goal all the way down to a Monday task list.
Friday, September 04, 2026
56% of US shoppers have quit buying a brand over shrinkflation. Why quietly shrinking packs costs FMCG brands more than an honest price rise — and how to build a value-change system instead.
Friday, September 04, 2026
Most FMCG brands that succeed regionally never make the jump to national shelf space. Here's what the brands that do scale nationally build before the big order arrives — capacity, standardisation, and sell-through data — and why the brands that don't fail fast once they win it.
Friday, September 04, 2026
The owners who get the most from coaching don't walk in with good news — they walk in with a real problem. Here's why the progress-report habit quietly wastes coaching sessions, and what to bring instead.
Friday, September 04, 2026
Most productivity advice optimises the calendar you already have. The real fix is deciding what doesn't belong on it. Here's the 90/10 diagnostic for finding — and protecting — the small share of your week that actually drives growth.
Friday, September 04, 2026
Most sales training focuses on the pitch and the close. The outcome is usually decided in the first five minutes. Here's the diagnostic-first opening sequence that changes conversion rates without changing your product or your price.
Friday, September 04, 2026
Most SME marketing leads with product specs. Buyers respond to stories. Here's the system for finding, capturing, and multiplying the customer stories you already have — with an FMCG-specific angle on letting the shelf and repeat-purchase data talk.